SLAY YOUR FEARS IN 2018



Why is this so important? Because fear is a natural hindrance to greatness. Wherever fear is lurking, we tend to digress. We procrastinate, we delay and most often quit and give up. We never write that book, start that business, change that career, go back to school or whatever the situation maybe for us. Instead, we settle for less than and never fully tap into our potential and the greatness that’s on the inside of us. Make 2018 the year not to settle anymore. Instead, face your fears and discover what great things lies beyond fear.

So, how do you face your fears? Number one, you must do it afraid. Whatever task you have before you that’s making you afraid, you must face it. Even if you are shaking in your boots. Keep shaking and do it anyway. The more you do this, the stronger you become over that situation. I remember doing this very thing. Situations that I would run away from because I was so fearful, I finally had to make the decision that there was no other way but to face them even though I felt so afraid. The more I did this, overtime I gain strength over the situation. Oftentimes, the feelings of fear, anxiety or nervousness never go away initially but the more you do what you need to do in spite of the fear, the more control you have over those feelings. Actually, in my experience those feelings went away because I didn’t think the same way I use to anymore. Your thinking and your emotions are connected. Your thoughts fuel how you feel. If you really want to change your feelings, you must first change your thinking. Thoughts are the root and they influence how you feel. So, your thought life has everything to do with your emotions and how you feel. As I changed my thought process, my emotional and mental state became more stable and peaceful regardless of my outward circumstances and the same will happen for you.

So, how do you slay your fears? In addition to taking action by facing things head-on that you’re afraid of, you must change your mindset. The main core of us are our thoughts and belief systems. When we change those core things, our behavior will overtime change as well. To really change your behaviors of fear or anything else, you must first reprogram your thinking and belief system. Everything else stems from that. The internal programming must be change to permanently change our behavior and what we do. Go to the root, which are our thought processes and belief systems to have permanent change.  Changing your mindset really does change your life. Develop new thinking about the things you are afraid of and your actions will follow as well. Fear is really just a matter of how you think and what you believe. Change those thoughts and belief systems on the inside of you and fear won’t be fear anymore.


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