Rebuilding the Broken by Andrea Ellis

Truly, this is my mission in life. I love helping women become free from their brokenness. Meaning free from their pain, their hurts, wounds and areas where internal healing is needed. I was once very broken myself. Circumstances of rejection and abandonment as a young child had a very debilitating effect on much of my life. I became very crippled by fear. I dealt with the fear of rejection and needing to be accepted by others. I truly needed peoples' approval to feel good about myself and I made decisions based on what I perceived people would think and say. Every decision was controlled by that mindset. It got so bad that I started manifesting the feeling of fear. Everywhere I went I felt fear. When it started, I was extremely troubled by it. At first, I didn't know what this feeling was. I just knew I felt intensely nervous for no reason especially when I began working around people at my internship at that time. It was a new feeling and it totally consumed all my attention and perhaps I even became paranoid about it. I become awkward around the people I was working with. I felt so nervous, uneasy and fearful for no reason around people I was perfectly fine with prior to all this. It all happened overnight. It was very sudden how this feeling just started taking over my life and slowly began to extend into other areas of my life. At church, I also started experiencing this as well and also, with some of my friends! Now this was becoming ridiculous. It was very scary for me. It was an uncontrollable feeling and it appeared suddenly especially when interacting with other people. It was devastating for me.  

This took me on a spiritual journey of really crying out to God and asking Him to help me. He was the only one I could look to. I couldn’t dare share it with anyone else I thought. Shortly thereafter, I discovered that the root of this went back to issues I dealt with in my childhood that was never resolved. I had buried everything for such a longtime that I really never dealt with it properly. Deep rooted issues were now festering outwardly in this way and others. I was emotionally fractured, and I needed to be healed.   

Through a process of learning to forgive, developing self-love, renewing my mind, changing belief systems about myself that was self-defeating, connecting to the right people and most importantly, my relationship with God and intentionally rebuilding myself from the inside out, I am now on the other side of brokenness. I’m not perfect. I have not arrived but I’m no longer controlled by fear and I’m healed from my past. I dealt with those deep-rooted issues from my childhood that was impacting my adult life. I no longer need others approval or struggle with the fear of rejection. I'm in a much better space and I'm the freest I've ever been in my life. It feels good not to walk around controlled by fear or feeling it all the time. 

On the journey to healing, forgiveness plays a big part. Until you first take the initiative to forgive those from your past who contributed to your hurt, you will never be free to move forward. You can try but it doesn’t work. You have to let go of all that filth so you can begin to move forward forreal. Anything you hang on to through unforgiveness will eventually surface one way or another. Forgiveness is a must to truly begin to move forward. It's the first step.  

Because of my own process and journey of overcoming, I’m now very passionate about helping others find their freedom by being healed from their past. It’s become my lifes' journey to provide the tools to help women be free from brokenness. What has happened to me on this side of freedom can happen to so many others and I want to help them have that victory. I am such a different person today and I’m so thankful I’m not how I use to be. Working on oneself is continual and every day I continue to work on being the best me that I can be. I want to see women no longer stuck in their pain, hurts and wounds from the past. I want to see them free and that’s why I’m so passionate about helping them be rebuild from the inside out so they can live their best life now. To truly embrace the future, we must be free from the past. 

Being a Life Coach has become one of the tools I use to help women be free and be made whole from the inside out. I provide one-on-one coaching to address issues of fear and get to the root causes of it in a woman's life. You can also take advantage of my Free 20 Min Introductory Session and see how this program can benefit you and address your particular need. I am equipped to produce the results you are looking for so you can be free and walk in your full potential. 

For comments or questions, you can email me at fearfreelivingllc@gmail.com or in the comment section.  

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is truly my mission in life. I love helping women become f

ree from their brokenness.

Meaning free from their pain, their hurts, wounds and areas

where internal healing is needed. I

was once very broken myself. Circumstances of rejection

and abandonment as a young child had

a very debilitating effect on much of my life. I became ve

ry crippled by fear. I dealt with the fear

of rejection and needing to be accepted by others. I truly

needed peoples' approval to feel good

about myself and I made decisions based on what I perceived pe

ople would think and say. Every

decision was controlled by that mindset. It got so bad that I

started manifesting the feeling of

fear. Everywhere I went I felt fear. When it started

, I was extremely troubled by it. At first, I

didn't know what this feeling was. I just knew I felt intensely

nervous for no reason especially

when I began working around people at my internship at that tim

e. It was a new feeling and it

totally consumed all my attention and perhaps I even became

paranoid about it. I become

awkward around the people I was working with. I felt so nervous

, uneasy and fearful for no

reason around

people

I

was perfectly fine with prior to all this. It all happened

overnight. It was

very sudden how this feeling just started taking over my lif

e and slowly began to extend into

other areas of my life. At church, I also started experiencing

this as well and also, with some of

my friends! Now this was becoming ridiculous. It was very s

cary for me. It was an

uncontrollable feeling and it appeared suddenly especially wh

en interacting with other people.

It was devastating for me.

This took me on a spiritual journey of really crying out

to God and asking Him to help me. He

was the only one I could look to. I couldn

’

t dare share it with anyone I thought. Shortly

thereafter, I discovered that the root of this went back to i

ssues I dealt with in my childhood

that was never resolved. I had buried everything for such a lo

ngtime that I really never deal

t

with it properly. Deep rooted issues were now festering ou

twardly in this way and others. I was

emotionally fractured, and I needed to be healed.

Through a process of learning to forgive, developing self-

love, renewing my mind, changing

belief systems about myself that was self-defeating, connecting to

the right people and most

i This is truly my mission in life. I love helping women become f ree from their brokenness. Meaning free from their pain, their hurts, wounds and areas where internal healing is needed. I was once very broken myself. Circumstances of rejection and abandonment as a young child had a very debilitating effect on much of my life. I became ve ry crippled by fear. I dealt with the fear of rejection and needing to be accepted by others. I truly needed peoples' approval to feel good about myself and I made decisions based on what I perceived pe ople would think and say. Every decision was controlled by that mindset. It got so bad that I started manifesting the feeling of fear. Everywhere I went I felt fear. When it started , I was extremely troubled by it. At first, I didn't know what this feeling was. I just knew I felt intensely nervous for no reason especially when I began working around people at my internship at that tim e. It was a new feeling and it totally consumed all my attention and perhaps I even became paranoid about it. I become awkward around the people I was working with. I felt so nervous , uneasy and fearful for no reason around people I was perfectly fine with prior to all this. It all happened overnight. It was very sudden how this feeling just started taking over my lif e and slowly began to extend into other areas of my life. At church, I also started experiencing this as well and also, with some of my friends! Now this was becoming ridiculous. It was very s cary for me. It was an uncontrollable feeling and it appeared suddenly especially wh en interacting with other people. It was devastating for me. This took me on a spiritual journey of really crying out to God and asking Him to help me. He was the only one I could look to. I couldn ’ t dare share it with anyone I thought. Shortly thereafter, I discovered that the root of this went back to i ssues I dealt with in my childhood that was never resolved. I had buried everything for such a lo ngtime that I really never deal t with it properly. Deep rooted issues were now festering ou twardly in this way and others. I was emotionally fractured, and I needed to be healed. Through a process of learning to forgive, developing self- love, renewing my mind, changing belief systems about myself that was self-defeating, connecting to the right people and most importantly, my relationship with God and intentionally r ebuilding myself from the inside out, I am now on the other side of brokenness. I ’ m not perfect. I have not arrived but I ’ m no longer controlled by fear and I ’ m healed from my past. I dealt with those deep-rooted issues f rom my childhood that was impacting my adult life. I no longer need others approval or struggle with the fear of rejection. I'm in a much better space and I'm the freest I've ever been in my life. It feels good not to walk around controlled by fear or feel ing it all the time. On the journey to healing, forgiveness plays a big part. Until you first take the initiative to forgive those from your past who contributed to your hur t, you will never be free to move forward. You can y but it doesn ’ t work. You have to let go of all that filth so you can begin to move forward forreal. Anything you hang on to through unf orgiveness will eventually surface one way or another. Forgiveness is a must to truly begin to move forward. It's the first my relationship with God and intentionally r

ebuilding myself from the inside out, I

am now on the other side of brokenness. I

’

m not perfect. I have not arrived but I

’

m no longer

controlled by fear and I

’

m healed from my past. I dealt with those deep-rooted issues f

rom my

childhood that was impacting my adult life. I no longer need

others approval or struggle with

the fear of rejection. I'm in a much better space and I'm the freest

I've ever been in my life. It

feels good not to walk around controlled by fear or feel

ing it all the time.

On the journey to healing, forgiveness plays a big part. Until

you first take the initiative to

forgive those from your past who contributed to your hur

t, you will never be free to move

forward. You can try but it doesn

’

t work. You have to let go of all that filth so you can

begin to

move forward forreal. Anything you hang on to through unf

orgiveness will eventually surface

one way or another. Forgiveness is a must to truly begin to

move forward. It's the first step